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WhyHonestPeopleSteal.com website

 

 

                                   

The groundbreaking book that's a best seller in its field                     Pyschologist/author Dr Will Cupchik

THE e-BOOK VERSION OF THIS BOOK IS NOW AVAILABLE   

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To view two brief videos on YouTube by Dr Cupchik on the subject of theft  behavior by usually honest persons, just click the links below:                     

The first YouTube video offers a segment of a talk Dr Cupchik gave to laypersons a few years back; it is still entirely relevant and easy to understand:

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=S4LEu6p9sqk

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The next video is the most recent, filmed in Dr Cupchik's busy home office in January 2012:

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=hbv5rka8eUI

 

 

WORK LIVE WITH  DR CUPCHIK TO STOP  YOUR THEFT BEHAVIOR 

No matter which webpage you landed upon when arriving on this website, you will find the likely best webpage to start reading is...

(click here->) the Skype-based 20-session Intensive Intervention Program

 

The Skype-based 20-session Intensive Intervention Program

Kleptomania: A chronically misused label    Media Interest in Dr Cupchik's Work

Free Phone or Skype Brief Screening Interview    The Cupchik Theft Offender Spectrum          

2 Page BROCHURE for SKYPE-based Intensive Intervention Program

Gerald, An Excellent Example of a Typical Thief Offender    When Celebrities Shoplift         

On Execucrime         Practice Information Bulletin

Some Articles of Interest to Professions and Laypersons   Curriculum Vitae [Resume] 

The potential misuse of anti-depressants for cases of supposed 'kleptomania

 

 

 

Psychologist Dr. Will Cupchik has been has been working in the area of  shoplifting and other kinds of thefts that have been carried out by usually honest, ethical adults, since 1974. He is the most experienced clinician in the field, having personally assessed and treated over 700 individuals during the past 37 years, helping them to stop their self-destructive theft behavior and get on with leading happier, more constructive and more productive lives.

 

An Introductory Message from Dr Will Cupchik (updated January 27, 2012)

        Welcome to the WhyHonestPeopleSteal.com website. I am certain that here you will find a great deal of important information to assist you in understanding and dealing with the serious and frequently misunderstood problem of the atypical (and often seemingly bizarre and/or even nonsensical) stealing that has been carried out by an individual who is basically a genuinely honest, ethical, intelligent, and perhaps (but not necessarily) highly educated and financially and/or professionally successful person - someone who truly has no monetary need to steal the items or monies that were taken, and that the person has been having great difficulty stopping to do.

 

Usually such individuals (or their lawyers) contact me after they have -once again- committed yet another act of seemingly nonsensical stealing, and perhaps have been caught and charged. These persons may have tried to seek help but, regardless, they realize that whatever help they have received has not been very helpful in terms of assisting them to stop their stealing.  If they are genuinely interested in stopping the stealing behavior that is causing them so much distress, and if they are truly willing to do the personal work involved in uncovering the reasons behind their stealing, then the Intensive Intervention Program may very well be of considerable help. 

 

       I began my clinical investigations in the area of atypical theft behavior in 1974, while I was on the psychology staff of the forensic service of the University of Toronto affiliated Clarke Institute of Psychiatry (from 1974-1986), and where, from 1984-86, I held the position of Psychologist-in-Charge, Forensic Outpatient Psychological Services. Over the past 37-plus years, I have uncovered many of the underlying reasons for such stealing, and have developed unique assessment and therapeutic tools to help these persons stop their self-destructive behavior.

 

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       Do you relate to at least some of the following factors? 

      (1) a continuing problem with intermittent or more frequent stealing, even though you are keenly aware that you are risking your reputation, work situation, license to practice your profession, and/or perhaps even a jail term and at least part of you wants to stop risking so much (usually for so little in monetary terms). You may well have been in counseling or psychotherapy for some time, but your theft behavior has nevertheless continued.

      (2) difficulties with self-assertion at times, including perhaps saying "no" to some persons at work and/or in your personal life;  

      (3) ongoing problems in primary relationships, perhaps with your partner or spouse, child or parent;   

      (4) a personal history of having experienced emotional, physical and/or sexual abuse or other  traumatic experiences in your childhood and/or adulthood;   

     (5) familiarity with serious depression and/or anger;   

     (6) still unresolved issues in regard to either one or both parents and/or other authority figures;  

     (7) long-standing problems with low self-esteem, no matter how seemingly personally, socially, financially and/or professionally successful? 

    (8) a pervasive fear that you will be caught stealing and of your family and friends finding out

    (9) emotional distress related to actual or anticipated personally meaningful losses (of a person, place, profession, or the health of either yourself or someone close to you;

and/or

     (10) feelings of embarrassment and remorse regarding your theft behavior.

 

       The above list represents just some of the issues that have emerged from my clinical investigations of atypical theft behavior and are familiar to many usually honest persons who have perhaps repeatedly shoplifted and/or committed other acts of theft. If you (or the person you are concerned about, would have) have answered "Yes" to some, or perhaps most, of the above ten elements, then the likelihood is that you will find this website, my book, and my Skype-based Intensive Intervention Program to be most helpful. 

         

        Since our initial article, titled Shoplifting: An Occasional Crime Of The Moral Majority was published in the major American peer-reviewed professional journal, The Bulletin Of The American Academy Of Psychiatry And The Law, nearly twenty-nine years ago, in 1983, I have continued to assess and treat these usually honest and ethical clients who have seriously risked jeopardizing their personal, social and/or working lives, by stealing - and who may have continued to do so even after having been apprehended, and often after having already been dealt with by the courts (possibly more than once), and have likely seen one or more of a variety of previous therapists.

 

        It is important to note that the vast majority of reputable psychiatrists, psychologists, social workers and other therapists (no matter how experienced or expert they may be in other areas) will readily acknowledge that they are not very knowledgeable in regard to assessing and treating atypical theft behavior. Indeed, over the years, many therapists have referred their clients to me in order to have me assist them in stopping their theft behavior. 

 

        Every year in the USA alone, many thousands of usually honest, ethical and contributing persons, commit acts of seemingly nonsensical or bizarre theft. In most instances, the individuals who commit these thefts are shocked and often frightened by these clearly self-destructive behaviors that threaten to destroy their good names, their jobs/careers, their closest relationships, and perhaps even their freedom. Often the items they steal are quite inexpensive, at least as compared with their easily available assets. In many instances they have sought assistance from one or more clinicians (psychologists, psychiatrists, etc...) and yet they have continued to steal - at times seemingly uncontrollably. Many of the hundreds of clients I have assessed and treated have followed such a path before finally contacting me for assistance, when they finally realized that they were in need of highly experienced and specialized expertise focused on this particular kind of behavior. However and most unfortunately, before contacting me, some of these persons have often been misdiagnosed as suffering from 'kleptomania', and this usually erroneous diagnosis has interfered with them getting the effective help they require. 

 

        In 1985, in a chapter that my original co-investigator, psychiatrist Dr. Don Atcheson and I contributed to the book, Clinical Criminology: The Assessment and Treatment of Criminal Behavior, we labeled these usually honest persons who steal, 'Atypical Theft Offenders' (or ATOs).  

         

        For many years I have worked with clients who have come from all over the USA (including California, Florida, Hawaii, Ohio, New Jersey, New York, North Carolina, Ohio and Texas) and across Canada to work with me in my office for 3 or 4 days at a time, as part of an on-site, in-office Intensive Intervention Program. The total financial cost to these persons - for airfare, hotel accommodations, food, etc..., - and the inconvenience of their having to leave their homes and places of work for several days, was considerable (and for many other potential clients, prohibitively expensive). 

        

    Thankfully, since 2008 and the introduction of Skype, the free, easy to use, video communication tool available to virtually all personal computer users via webcam, I have developed an extremely effective, 20-session, Skype-based Intensive Program, so that now I work with people from around the world via our respective webcam-enabled computers, without these clients having to spend many thousands of dollars just to physically leave home and travel to my office. 

 

     Better yet, I have found that the assessment and therapeutic work that we do when working via Skype, is just as effective, and in some respects, even superior to that which would be achieved if the client had actually traveled to physically be present in my office. Why? Because, by arranging our clinical sessions over a much longer period of time than the earlier 4-day, in-office program afforded, a client now has the opportunity to complete practical homework assignments between sessions that allow for beneficial changes in his or her life to take place and take hold. And sessions can be scheduled so as to minimize disruption to the client's regular work and home day-to-day activities.

        The combination of great effectiveness, minimal disruption to the client's daily routine, and very considerable monetary savings, makes for a highly convenient, and more importantly, highly effective therapeutic experience.

Readers of the New York Times September 23, 2011 edition may have read the article by journalist Jan Hoffman titled, "When Your Therapist Is Only a Click Away", in which she described the increasing use of online video tools such as 'Skype' that allow patients and their clinicians to carry on assessment and treatment without the need for them to be in the same physical locale (such as the therapist's office). The article also pointed out that "several studies have concluded that patient satisfaction with face-to-face interaction and online therapy... was statistically similar." Having used Skype with clients for more than four years to this point, I have entirely satisfied myself that this is indeed the case, and so now I only work online with clients, producing considerable savings in time and money for my clients without any loss in efficacy of the assessment and therapeutic process. 

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      To arrange a Free Brief Screening Interview

           To arrange for a Free Brief Screening Interview to help determine whether taking the Skype-based Intensive Intervention Program might be of assistance to you, by all means: 

     (i) thoroughly read this and the other webpages on this website to gain some preliminary information about my findings and professional background in this area;

     (ii) email me (Dr. Cupchik) directly at wcupchik@aol.com to inquire about working together. By all means, please provide some basic information about yourself (your age, gender, marital status, work or profession, and specific reasons for contacting him including your particular difficulties with theft behavior, etc...). The more information you provide in your initial email, the easier it will be for me to make a preliminary determination as to whether proceeding to do a Free Brief Screening Interview would be appropriate in your case.

    (ii) After receiving and reviewing your email and the information you will have provided, I will respond promptly to you.  If, from my review of the information you will have provided, it seems likely that working together might well be worthwhile to you, we can arrange a time for the Free Brief Screening Interview to take place either by phone or (preferably) via Skype. This initial Interview usually takes about thirty minutes, affords both of us an opportunity to gain an initial familiarity with one another, and enables me to help you and me decide whether arranging to take the 20-session Skype-enabled Intervention Program that I personally conduct, might be helpful to you.

Again, do keep in mind that this offer is extended only to those persons who are in a position to, and are seriously considering working with me via the Skype-enabled Intervention Program.

 

Please Note: Kindly put my initials (WC) in brackets in the 'subject line' of your email when contacting me. My email address is wcupchik@aol.com .

 

Also, please do read all of this webpage before requesting the Free Brief Screening Interview.

 

 

                                                           

 To watch a portion of a talk I gave on the subject of atypical theft behavior, now on YouTube, just click here http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=S4LEu6p9sqk . By all means come back after you view the video and continue to read this and the other pages on this website.

 

Feedback from some previous Intensive Intervention Program participants: 

        "It has been over five years since I took the Intensive Intervention Program. I would like you to know that I have not shoplifted since, and I am feeling better about myself than I ever have before. I am doing really well in my working and personal aspects of my life, and have already achieved most all of the positive goals I had set for myself during this period. You helped me to realize why I might have been shoplifting, and helped point out stressful situations might tempt me to engage in the behavior again. This watchfulness has helped me avoid such situations, or when they were unavoidable, to handle them differently . I also realize that in order to continue to not steal, I will need to deal with the issues that will emerge in my life by facing them directly, using the tools I gained during our work together. As a result, while there have been stressful situations that I have had to deal with since our working together, I have not even been tempted to steal."

 

       "The Intensive, which I did with two other members of my family present at various times, has enabled us all to reveal truths that we had not talked about in decades.  The experience led/allowed/made me examine those dark moments in my life in a more fully connected way ... and to appreciate the roles of the major losses that I had experienced in childhood in my theft behavior... and to more openly share ...my reality with my mother and sister who... also took part in the Intensive.  Incidentally, calling your program an "Intensive" is very apt. The experience has already led to an incredible improvement in our family dynamics." 

 

       "Dr. Will: Having taken your Intensive program to deal with my compulsive stealing and spending, accompanied by my wife and two year old daughter, I wanted to give you an update on my progress.  I have not been involved in any compulsive stealing or spending since the Intensive. I have found other, much more productive ways of dealing with my feelings about myself and the situations I have been facing.  I have also been dealing with my problems with intimacy much better, and have increasingly made my family my priority. I have also defined and redirected my career in a much more focused way.  The Intensive was very helpful in coming to terms with my compulsive shopping, and underlying issues, and the exercises you offered have really helped. My wife and and I both felt we gained a lot of insight in many ways from the time and effort. Thank you." 

 

       "There is not one specific formula for what Dr. Cupchik does that fits all. It is a very  intensive program. But I can not say he will do this and then this and then that. Many of his techniques are described in his book and on his website. Which ones he uses with individual patients I assume would vary. He works with people who steal due to some sense of loss. If anger sets you into a stealing mode, he can probably help you... Most of all, it is about digging deep within you to discover and better understand what the demon (my term) is that makes you react this way. I found him to be exceptional at his therapeutic approach, and the experience was very beneficial to me and my family. Perhaps the most life altering effect for me was validation and acceptance at a very fundamental level. Something that is difficult to find if it was not instilled in you early in life. For those who ...are quite comfortable with --and fully desire and intend to-- continue to steal, then his program is definitely not the one for you."



       "Thank you for your wonderful program. The work begins. Our adult son has told me that he has begun to "unload" his apartment of stolen items. My husband will be down to Texas within the month for overseeing if necessary. My son told me that his psychiatrist read your report and that you had absolutely nailed him! Our son's phone conversations seem more adult already and my husband and I are incorporating your directives as much as possible. We suffer no illusions that life will be easy for our son but know that he must do the work to be held accountable regardless of diagnoses. We would absolutely recommend your program and will speak about it with our son's former psychiatrist in New York City."  

 

       "Dr. Cupchik, I want to thank you so much for your help and for your report that you prepared for court. The judge took the time to read your report completely, and then said that because of your explanations of the reasons for my behavior and your description of the issues I have been dealing with in my life, he was going to be lenient in my case - this time. He warned me, however, that I do need to continue with my treatment and I very much want to do so. I should have a good life ahead of me and don't want to do anything else to jeopardize my future happiness."

 

            "Every day I am thankful for being one step closer to being completely out of the hole.  I have been working so hard on examining myself when I am out in public, observing my body’s alarms. But I have to tell you that my brain is working differently… . This may sound crazy, but the lighting in stores is more pleasant, the other people who are walking through the shop eating their ice cream seem to have happier looking faces, the floors seem to more polished. Almost as if my body uncontrollably would enter a store and I would take something, I now am thinking of the action. Last Friday I needed to drop something off at a hotel where our big school fundraiser was being held that night. There are a few shops, but one in particular that I wanted " to pop into". Walking down the big open entrance I actually swayed back and forth, left towards the elevator which would lead me to the stores, and then right towards the valet to get in my car and get the heck out of there...   I guess I did not want put myself back in that awful dark place, because often in the past, when I would take things, even the most beautiful of flowers would look dry and wilty. Instead, this time, I went to my car and felt pretty good and in control, and strong. Again I thank you, Dr. Will.."

 

        "Hi, Will. Just wanting to catch you up on my activities since I last saw you a few years ago. I am still working part-time after having retired from my teaching position a decade ago. I find that I have no desire whatsoever to steal and am continually amazed at that fact, and that I had stolen so many times over so many years before I finally came to see you. My husband is very relieved and grateful for your help, as well. And he told me to specifically tell you that I am one of your great success stories. Thanks again."

                                                                      [updated Sept 7, 2011]

 

        Feedback from some Intensive participants' lawyers     

 

  Re Client A:   "We thank you for your valuable assistance and for the fine program that you have developed to assist such people as (my client). I know from my personal experience that the other types of counseling and assessment were of little value to her, but I have seen a marked improvement in her physical and mental condition since she has been in your therapy program."

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 Re Client B:  "Your Psychological Report was most helpful to me in my discussions with (the District Attorney). As you are no doubt aware, the charge against my client has been withdrawn.... I know that in speaking with her that she has been much helped by the therapy that she has taken with you. ... May I personally thank you for your assistance to me and help throughout."

 

Re Client C:   "I would like to thank you for the excellent Report that you prepared on behalf of (my client). It had a major impact upon the (district attorney) and the presiding Judge and assisted everyone in making a determination of what to do with my client. The judge recognized that this was a (psychological problem) more than a legal problem... ."

 

Re Client D: "Thank you for assisting me with Ms. D's case... Without your report, she almost certainly would have been sentenced to a term of imprisonment.... "

 

 

For nearly four decades, the media has shown great interest in my clinical work with usually honest people who have stolen and I have been extensively interviewed by the media in the U.S., Europe and Canada. Below is a partial listing.

 

TV, Radio and Internet media:   ABC's Good Morning America    MSNBC Investigates  

CBS's Early Show   Discovery Channel   FOX NETWORK  

Bloomberg Radio News  National Public Radio  CBC News,

CTV, Global Network ABCnews.com    

 

In Newspapers:     The New York Times     Denver Post    L.A. Times    

San Francisco Chronicle      Chicago Sun-Tribune    

Cleveland Plain Dealer    Globe and Mail      National Post

 

And in Magazines:  PEOPLE...  SELF... HEALTH...  ALLURE...   CHATELAINE  

THE FORENSIC EXAMINER   READERS DIGEST

                                                                                                [Dec 4, 2011]

  Ordering my book...

NOW AVAILABLE   FOR  YOUR  KINDLE,  iPHONE,  iPAD,  or  NOOK  FOR only $9.99                          

   In my book, WHY HONEST PEOPLE SHOPLIFT OR COMMIT OTHER ACTS OF THEFT: The Assessment And Treatment Of 'Atypical Theft Offenders', Revised Edition. I describe my clinical findings and the approaches that I have developed and employ as appropriate during Intervention Programs. Some 31 sample composite cases are described in the book, providing the reader with a wide variety of examples of atypical theft behavior. 

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From a Book Review of the original edition of this book published in the 'Criminal Lawyers' Association Newsletter', 1998 

"Most criminal defense lawyers have been faced with the "typical" shoplifting case: a client steals an item  from the store because he or she is poor and just didn't have the money. Most of these cases are sad.... (However) the atypical cases, are those in which the client has enough money to pay for the item or does not even need the item.... .  Dr. Will Cupchik offers a fascinating study of the atypical client - that is, someone who displays bizarre, nonsensical behavior in committing theft of fraud....His well-written text is divided into several major parts: i) understanding why honest people steal; ii) assessing the atypical theft offender; iii) treating the atypical theft offender; iv) issues for loss prevention, employee assistance plan and human resources personnel, the police and the judiciary. ... While the crimes themselves may be minor, the underlying factors which lead to these crimes are extremely important both in identifying and assisting the atypical offender. 

"It is tempting these days to simply process such clients by way of diversion or a small fine. Such an approach, however, does not necessarily assist the client to prevent repetition of such an offence.... While defense counsel are not social workers, we are still obligated to ensure that our client's problems are properly identified and responded to by the courts. Dr. Cupchik's extremely useful text will help both us and hopefully the judges meet that obligation."

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The book is available from the following online bookstores in hardcopy and in ebook format, for your Kindle, Nook, iPhone, iPad, and/or computer:

Amazon:
http://www.amazon.com/dp/B005J6J96Q

BN:
http://search.barnesandnoble.com/Why-Honest-People-Shoplift-or-Commit-Other-Acts-of-Theft/Will-Cupchik/e/2940013046375

iBookstore:
http://itunes.apple.com/us/book/isbn9781614343882

 

 

Aims Of The Intensive Intervention Program for Atypical Theft Offenders

The Intensive Intervention Program is intended to assist participants to:

    (1) uncover the reasons behind their inappropriate theft behavior (which is very frequently at odds with the more usual moral, ethical and responsible ways in which they conduct their lives) , and 

    (2) assist these 'Atypical Theft Offenders' to stop their career-sabotaging, relationship-stressing and reputation-destroying behavior .

    All Intensive attendees receive, at no extra cost, a multi-page Draft Note summarizing areas that were addressed during their Programs, as well as a list of specific recommendations for further treatment/therapeutic work (if deemed desirable) that the attendee may wish to pursue with his or her own, local therapist (or with me via Skype). In some instances, feedback from clients have indicated that these Draft Notes have been used by their lawyers and presented to the court with positive results.

      Attendees may also request a subsequent formal Psychological Report to assist the court in determining a more suitable disposition of their cases. 

 

Detailed Information about the 20-Session long Skype-based Intensive Intervention Program

 

Timing for the full 20-session Skype Intensive Intervention Program: The Skype-enabled Intensive Intervention Program consists of twenty 50-minute-long clinical sessions carried out via webcam-enabled home computers. The initial timing of sessions is agreed upon at the outset, subject to change in accordance with the client's and my own respective schedules.  It has been found that working for 2 or 3 sessions at a time, once per week, allows the clinical work to progress in an optimally effective fashion. Exceptional flexibility regarding timing allows some participants to have their sessions held either during regular working hours, in the evenings, or even on weekends.

 

Involvement of The Partner or Spouse or other 'Significant Other' of the Client in the Program:  It has found to be extremely helpful (although not absolutely necessary) to have the partner or spouse (or anther key individual in the client's life) personally involved in at least parts of the Intensive Program. Usually, I will have an interview session with this 'other person' so as to get his or her input regarding the client and the latter's behavior. 

Sometimes, when it appears likely to be useful, and of course, only with the client's willingness, the 'significant other' is invited to participate in one or more sessions along with the client: decades of experience have clearly demonstrated that having the 'significant other' involved in the process and available to assist the client to dealing with issues that may arise during the Intensive, can be very helpful. Experience also shows that spouses are often relieved, and very much appreciate, being invited to participate in some of the clinical sessions, in order to better understand why their loved ones has carried out such self-destructive behavior. They also usually want to help out in any ways that they can, especially since their partner's theft behavior may be creating major difficulties in their relationship and at home. 

It is important to note that I do not reveal any information divulged by either the client or the 'significant other' to the other person without explicit permission having been granted.

 

The Usual Progress of the 20 Sessions: Initially, it is vital that I acquire a very thorough understanding of the client and his or her theft behavior. Consequently, in the first few sessions, the focus is usually on the assessment part of the process. Also, near the beginning of our work together, I provide both the client and the 'significant other' (where appropriate) with a considerable amount of information in the form of focused mini-lessons, where both can gain important insights that almost invariably lead to their improving their relationship, their understanding of the reasons behind the client's theft behavior, and the role that their relationship may play in regard to the client's acting out. As the Intensive Program progresses, more and more of the sessions' time is devoted to the therapeutic aspects of the process. Clients are given 'homework' assignments during the Program; these assignments provide the client with practical exercises and experiences aimed at assisting the individual to cease any further theft behavior. 

In addition to very likely being the most experienced clinician in the field of atypical theft behavior, I have been a practicing psychotherapist for more than forty years, and my expertise is applied to the issues that are specific to each person's situation. I have conducted many forms of psychotherapy, including individual, marital, intergenerational (i.e., parent-child), and group therapy. My doctoral dissertation focused upon interpersonal relationships and involved the creation of unique assessment and therapeutic tools with which to assess and improve them.

The therapeutic approaches I employ in the course of an Intensive:  I utilize a variety of approaches that I have found will provide optimal effectiveness for clients. Generally, I take the view that the goals of the Intensive are to gain an understanding of the reasons why the individual has been stealing and then to apply those tools that may be most effective in facilitating positive changes that improve the client's mental and emotional well-being while reducing the likelihood that he or she will re-offend. I employ techniques derived from the therapy schools of Gestalt Therapy, Transactional Analysis, Redecision Therapy, Reintrojection Therapy (the latter being own unique contribution to the field that has been published and referenced in professional publications and applauded by other prominent clinicians) and Mental Imagery, while grounding a good deal of the work within a psychodynamic framework that I explain thoroughly to the client. [This information is provided for those persons who have some familiarity with various kinds of psychotherapy; if you do not have much or any familiarity with these terms or approaches, do not be concerned; you will learn about them firsthand during the process of the Program.]

The therapeutic relationship itself is considered an important, and indeed, a vital element in helping to move the client forward towards the agreed upon goals. As a result, the client may gain increased self-awareness, insight and can begin to move towards making positive changes in a variety of areas of his or her life. To learn more about the therapy approaches used, you are encouraged to read my book. Therapy is considered a cooperative and collaborative process; 'homework assignments' given at the end of the sessions offer the client direction and the opportunities to change how he or she operates in the world, in positive ways.

 

At the conclusion of the 20-session Intensive: By the time the Intensive ends, typically the client: (i) will have gained a great deal of understanding of the reasons underlying his or her theft behavior; (ii) will have made considerable strides in changing the conditions that had led to the stealing, and (iii) may have stopped stealing altogether. As well, the client will be well armed to confront any lingering inclinations to act out, and in the free Draft Note that he or she receives at the end of the Intensive, any further need for follow-up with a local therapist (or with myself) will be clearly outlined. As mentioned above, Draft Notes have been used by some participants' lawyers in order to better deal with court situations.

 

Staying in Touch: Out of professional and personal interest, and in order to continue to accumulate additional data for my ongoing research into the clinical area of atypical theft behavior, I always welcome communications from former clients via snail mail and/or email, regarding their personal experiences and progress following their Intensives. The 'testimonials' provided near the top of this webpage were reprinted from such emails.

 

Cost of the 20-Session Skype-enabled Intervention Program: The cost of the entire 20-session long program (each session being 50 minutes in length) is currently $3600.--U.S.  This cost includes, in addition to the 20 sessions, the Draft Note that is provided to each client at the end of the completed program. Do note that the cost of the Program is subject to change at any time up to the time that the particular client's Program is firmly scheduled.

         

 

 

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THE THREE TYPES OF THEFT OFFENDERS IDENTIFIED BY

DRs CUPCHIK AND ATCHESON

 

Which Type of Theft Offender are you (or the person you are concerned about)?

  •       The Atypical Theft Offender’ (A.T.O.) is an individual whose seemingly bizarre or nonsensical acts of theft, which may involve shoplifting, fraud, or employee theft, are aberrations of that person’s usual ways of conducting him/herself as an ethical, law-abiding and contributing member of society.  The A.T.O. may feel ‘out of control’ about having violated his/her own moral code by stealing, and frequently experiences serious confusion, deep shame and genuine remorse in regard to the theft behavior. Atypical Theft Offenders frequently have serious personal and interpersonal issues that need to uncovered and dealt with, usually with the assistance of directed clinical treatment.   Atypical Theft Offenders are often mistakenly labeled as suffering from ‘kleptomania’, a mis-diagnosis that usually precludes their receiving suitable treatment. Without effective treatment, these offenders may remain at risk to commit additional offenses, at which time the mis-label of kleptomania may be erroneously re-applied, again and again.  Suicidal potential is a genuine concern with some Atypical Theft Offenders.
  •      In contrast, Typical Theft Offenders (T.T.O.s), who undoubtedly constitute the majority of theft offenders, are very comfortable with their theft behaviors, and may only experience regret about having been caught, as opposed to feeling shame or remorse about the act of theft itself. Unless such individuals are genuinely ready and willing to work within and outside of the clinical sessions, and to make the recommended changes, they make exceedingly poor candidates for clinical intervention.  
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  •       Most theft offenders who take Dr Cupchik's Interevention Programs display both Atypical Theft Offender and Typical Theft Offender elements, and are referred to as the ‘Mixed Type’ Theft Offender (A.T.O./T.T.O) . Many of these individuals, are amenable to clinical intervention. One of the functions of this Intervention Program is to ascertain which of the above categories the theft offender belongs to, as this has implications for the nature and prognosis of any clinical intervention, as well as for the appropriate disposition of the case within the legal system.

  •      Please note that the majority of clients who Dr. Cupchik works with, are of the 'Mixed Type', that is, they display features of both ATOs and TTOs.
  • Decades of experience have convinced Dr. Cupchik that the key issues in predicting a high likelihood of success in the Intervention Program are the individual's sincere desire to stop stealing and receiving the appropriate assessment and therapy. 

 

DETERMINING THE CATEGORY TO WHICH THE THEFT OFFENDER YOU ARE CONCERNED ABOUT, MOST LIKELY BELONGS

The following items in Tables A and B, are derived from the Cupchik Theft Offender Spectrum (to be found, in full, in his book), and can assist in distinguishing Atypical or Mixed-Type Theft Offenders from the more common Typical Theft Offenders. The more items the theft offender could respond to truthfully in the affirmative in Table A, and in the negative in Table B, the more likely it is that he or she may be a suitable candidate for this Program.       

[The complete Cupchik Theft Offender Spectrum appears in Dr. Cupchik's book, "Why Honest People Shoplift Or Commit Other Acts Of Theft". The items below are merely an important sampling of this questionnaire and are provided for your interest.]

 

TABLE A

Yes

No

Did the theft offender steal in such an obvious fashion as if to purposefully get caught?

 

 

Was the theft offender under an unusual or extreme amount of stress at the time of the offense?

 

 

Does the offender appear to be experiencing profound shame in regard to having committed the act (as opposed to having such feelings because he or she was caught)?

 

 

Was the theft offender anticipating (or actually) experiencing any major personally meaningful losses just prior to the offense?

 

 

Was the theft offender experiencing marked resentment or anger towards his or her ‘intimate other’ at about the time of the offense?

 

 

Was the monetary value of what was stolen very small compared to the individual’s readily available financial resources?

 

 

Was cancer or any other major illness an issue either for the theft offender or a ‘significant other’ at about the time of the offense?

 

 

Did the theft offender experience any major or unusual losses while a child?

 

 

Does the theft offender feel ‘out of control’ in regard to stopping  the theft behavior?

 

 

           TOTAL  FOR TABLE A

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___

 

 

 
                     TABLE ‘B’

Yes

No

Was what was stolen desirable to the offender?

 

 

Was what was stolen needed by the offender?

 

 

Was greed a factor in the theft?

 

 

Was the theft planned before the incident?

 

 

Was the item used by the offender, his or her family and/or friends or acquaintances?

 

 

Was a weapon or threat used in the commission of the offense?

 

 

Has the theft offender previously been convicted of any other kinds of crimes or illegal actions (DUI, etc..)?

 

 

Was the item later sold by the theft offender?

 

 

            TOTAL FOR TABLE B

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___

Interpreting the scoring:  The greater the number of ‘Yes’ responses from Table A and ‘No’ responses from Table B, the greater the likelihood that the theft offender is an Atypical or Mixed-Type of theft offender, and may therefore be a suitable candidate for the Atypical Theft Offender Intervention Program.  

Please Note: Most participants of the Intensive Intervention Program are of the Mixed (ATO & TTO)-type  of theft offender.

Of course, the fewer the number of ‘Yes’ responses from Table A and ‘No’ responses from Table B, the greater the likelihood that the theft offender is a Typical Theft Offender; generally these individuals are more complex candidates for the Intervention Programs.  However, very occasionally even some primarily Typical Theft Offenders reach a point in their lives that they, also, genuinely desire to cease their theft behavior, but have very great difficulty doing so. At that point they may be suitable candidates for this program.  

Regardless of how the individual responds to the items in the above tables, all prospective participants for the Atypical Theft Offender Intervention Program should:

(a)    be highly motivated to uncover the reasons for their theft behavior, and want to stop these ultimately self-destructive acts;  and

(b)    be willing to become genuinely and fully involved in the Intensive Program. This includes a willingness to be open and forthcoming about all issues discussed during the program. 

 

 

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If you are considering taking the Skype-based Intensive Intervention

 Program, please copy the following questionnaire, fill it out and

email it to Dr Cupchik at wcupchik@aol.com

 

A Questionnaire for persons considering taking the full 20-session Skype-based Intensive Intervention Program and who first wish to apply for the Free Brief Screening Interview to help determine if taking the Program at this time would be worthwhile.

 

Please fill out the questionnaire and email to Dr Cupchik at wcupchik@aol.com . In the subject line please write the following: [(WC) My completed FBSI Questionnaire]

 

1. First name only (at this time):

 

2. Age and gender:

 

3. Marital Status:  If married or living common-law, please state your spouse's first name.

 

4. Ages and genders of your children, if any.

 

5. Educational Background:

 

6. Your work/profession:

 

7. Have you ever stolen from your workplace, your co-workers, clients or customers? If yes, please describe to what extent you have done so.

 

8. Describe the sort(s) of theft behavior: (i.e., shoplifting, fraud, etc...) that you have engaged in.

 

9. How many times in total you have committed these kinds of acts?

 

10. From whom (relatives, friends, strangers, etc…) and where (kind of stores, elsewhere) have you stolen?  

 

11. Over what period of time?

 

12. Have you ever been caught? Charged? Convicted? How many times, please:

 

13. Your estimate of the total amount, in dollars, of the value of the items/money stolen:

 

14. Issues in your personal and/or working life that have been and still are of concern to you:

 

15. Do you take prescribed antidepressants? If so, which one? Dosage? For how long have you been taking this medication?  What other prescribed medications are you taking?

 

16. Did you ever steal before being on an antidepressant?

 

17. Did you steal only after you began using an antidepressant?  

 

18. Did/do you have a problem with alcohol? Street drugs (which ones)?  

 

19. Do you have a considerable amount of anger? If so, towards whom?  

 

20. Do you tend to be depressed a good deal of the time?

  

21. Who in your personal life knows about your problem with stealing?  

 

22. Does that person truly know the full extent of the problem? 

 

23. What else can you relate about yourself and the goings on in your personal life, that you think may be relevant to your stealing behavior? 

 

24. What (other) personal issues are of concern to you at the present time?  

 

25. When did you last steal?  

 

26. When did you last get caught and/or charged?  

 

27. Do you currently have a charge pending before the courts? In what jurisdiction (country, state or province)?  

 

28. How many times have you been charged? Convicted? Have you ever spent any time in jail for stealing offences? How many separate times, and for how much time in total?

 

29. Have you been convicted of any other offences?

 

30. Do you genuinely wish to stop your theft behavior once and for all or are you primarily or only interested in simply dealing with any current charge? [If the latter, then working with Dr. Cupchik is definitely not recommended]

 

31. Have you had any previous psychotherapy? Are you currently in therapy? What kind, when, with whom, and what was/has been the duration of the treatment? What did you learn and how has it helped you in any area(s) of your life?

 

32. Please add below any other information that you care to and/or that you think Dr. Cupchik should probably be aware of, when considering your request for the Free Brief Screening Interview.  

 

33. Since you have been using a prescribed antidepressant, has your stealing markedly increased, lessened or stayed about the same? Please elaborate.  

 

34. How would you describe the state of your primary relationship? (Strained, supportive, in trouble, etc…)

 

35. How supportive do you think your partner would be if he/she knew the full extent of your stealing? Does he/she really know the FULL extent of your theft behavior?

 

36. Are you seriously considering the possibility of taking the 20-session Skype-based Intensive Intervention Program with Dr.  Cupchik? If so, what are your primary concerns in relation to considering this possibility?  

 

37. Where (in what country, state or province) do you live?

 

38. Does the jurisdiction in which you live have a so-called 'three-strikes policy' for criminal behavior, including shoplifting? 

 

 

 

 

To read some articles of interest by Dr. Cupchik that offer some examples of the atypical theft behavior of usually honest, ethical people, just click here.

 

             DR WILL CUPCHIK'S PROFESSIONAL BACKGROUND

Dr. Cupchik...

  • ... has been a counselor and psychotherapist for over forty-eight years. He received training in individual and group therapy at many venues, including the Western Institute For Group And Family Therapy located in Watsonville, California, beginning in 1972. WIGFT's co-directors, Dr. Bob and Mary Goulding, taught their Redecision [Transactional-Gestalt] Therapy approach to attendees at their extended workshops; Dr. Cupchik was also a guest lecturer at some of their workshops, and he has been referred to in their books.
  • ... has conducted individual, couples, and intergenerational (parent/adult child) psychotherapy with thousands of clients over the past 48 years. 
  • ... is the originator of numerous original assessment and therapeutic tools, including Reintrojection Therapy, a unique approach to uncovering and healing long-term, often painful, remnants of previous and/or ongoing relationships, especially including parent-child difficulties. This approach was reported upon in 1984 in Dr. Cupchik's article titled Reintrojection Therapy: A Procedure For Altering Parental Introjects, in the professional journal, Psychotherapy: Therapy, Research, and Practice. His work in this area was also specifically cited in Dr. Christine Coutrious's important book, Healing the Incest Wound.    
  • ... has worked with many clients on issues of loss, depression, and anger, as well as on mid-life, mid-career issues, life and executive coaching, and pre-retirement and retirement matters.  
  • ... as noted above in detail, now uses Skpye to offer a 20-session, video-enabled Intensive Intervention Program for clients who work with Dr. Cupchik without having to leave home.
  • ... is the author of the best-selling book (in its category on BarnesandNoble.com in its category (keyword: shoplifting), titled WHY HONEST PEOPLE SHOPLIFT OR COMMIT OTHER ACTS OF THEFT: ASSESSMENT AND TREATMENT OF 'ATYPICAL THEFT OFFENDERS' 

 

Dr. Cupchik's working life has been very extensive and varied:

  • he first worked as a professional electrical engineer (in 1961-2) at Computing Devices of Canada, designing navigational guidance systems for the then-next generation of military (including American) aircraft, and then as a:
  • high school science and mathematics teacher
  • guidance counselor and attendance counselor
  • psychotherapist for over forty-eight years, working with adolescents, adults, couples and groups
  • psychometrist and (later) psychologist on the forensic staff at the Clarke Institute of Psychiatry (12 years total: 1974-86)
  • was the Psychologist-in-Charge, Forensic Outpatient Psychological Services at the Clarke Institute of Psychiatry (2 years: 1984-86)
  • Psychologist in private practice (1986 to present)
  • university lecturer in psychotherapy in the Graduate Studies dept of the University of Toronto 
  • developer of various original psychological techniques and pen-and-paper tools in the areas of relationships and atypical theft behavior
  • author of the book, Why Honest People Shoplift Or Commit Other Acts Of Theft: The Assessment and Treatment of 'Atypical Theft Offenders'
  • is also author of the novel, The Avro Arrow Manipulation, (currently available from the Canadian Air And Space Museum)  

 

 

 

To view a brief video by Dr Cupchik on the subject of theft behavior by usually honest persons, just click on this link:

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=hbv5rka8eUI

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Contact Information

Telephone
416-928-2262

Fax  

     416-489-8882

 

Postal address
Dr. Will Cupchik, 2528 Bayview Avenue,
PO Box 35532, Toronto, Ontario, Canada M2L 2Y4
 
Email
wcupchik@aol.com
 

 

Copyright © 1997, 2011 Dr Will Cupchik
Last modified: 01/31/12 

Dr. Will Cupchik's Skype (Internet) based Intervention Programs 

 Kleptomania: A chronically (and erroneously)  misused label    Media Interest In Dr Cupchik's Work

Free Phone or Skype Brief Screening Interview    The Cupchik Theft Offender Spectrum          

2 Page BROCHURE for SKYPE-based Intensive Intervention Program           

Gerald, An Excellent Example of a Typical Thief Offender     When Celebrities Shoplift         

On Execucrime     Practice Information Bulletin

Some Major Articles of Interest to Professions and Laypersons   Curriculum Vitae [Resume] 

The potential misuse of anti-depressants for cases of supposed 'kleptomania

In-Office Intensive Interention Program

 

 

 

 

 

Dr. Will Cupchik's Skype-based 20-session Intervention Program

Kleptomania: A chronically misused label    Media Interest in Dr Cupchik's Work

Free Phone or Skype Brief Screening Interview    The Cupchik Theft Offender Spectrum          

2 Page BROCHURE for SKYPE-based Intensive Intervention Program

Gerald, An Excellent Example of a Typical Thief Offender    When Celebrities Shoplift         

On Execucrime         Practice Information Bulletin

Some Articles of Interest to Professions and Laypersons   Curriculum Vitae [Resume] 

The potential misuse of anti-depressants for cases of supposed 'kleptomania